On November 14, 2009, the HerShe Group held their annual Thanksgiving Day Celebration and proved to both honor and uphold the intentions of the popular holiday. I attended the event as a HerShe newcomer, arriving with hopes of learning more about the organization but at the same time, not knowing exactly what to anticipate during my visit. I simply did not know what to expect. My lack of expectation, however, proved to be all right because by the end of the day, I felt as though I received more than I could have ever expected. Ever.
I was fortunate enough to witness three holiday ideals while there.First, I witnessed the “giving” as I watched the HerShe mentors and the HerShe girls secretly make thoughtful gifts for each other that would be exchanged at the then upcoming Christmas Celebration. Also, the girls prepared the dinner that would later be shared by the entire HerShe family as the day’s culminating event. Each girl, mentor, and volunteer cheerfully gave their all at their respective tasks.
Secondly, I was privy to the “thanks”. The dinner was not only delicious, but delightful as well. There was a true sense of kinship and an air of love occupying the room. After the food was blessed, each individual stood up and noted what made them feel thankful. It was beautiful to see and hear everyone speak on how they have affected each other’s lives and made each other grateful for living.In all honesty, my spirits were lifted more and more as the day went on.
Each smile, laugh, and friendly exchange was like an instant shot of energy, a boost. I came into the space feeling unsure, slightly anxious and a little down (knowing that I wouldn’t be able to go home for Thanksgiving), but I left feeling extremely grateful and blessed.I truly look forward to more shared moments and memories with HerShe and certainly to the 2010 Thanksgiving Day Celebration, a day of THANKS, GIVING, and FAMILY.
A Special Thanks to Chef Antonia Lafosa, Pastor John David Webster, Sharon Mackey and Lynn Stuart.
~Alison Marcus, Volunteer
